I Looked Across the Room at Everyone Else Having Fun and Enjoying Themselves While I Stood There With My Hands in My Pockets…
I watched silently wondering what was wrong with me, thinking about how easy and natural it was for the other guys to talk to women.
I kept doubting myself. Why can’t I be like them?
Why can’t I just be normal?
All these guys seem to have self confidence, but I just feel so awkward around people.
I nursed my drink, holding it close to my chest while I imagined how nice it would be to be able to just be myself and relax when I’m around other people—especially women.
I imagined how wonderful it would feel to KNOW who I am and be totally confident in that image of myself whether anyone liked me or not.
I imagined how it would feel to be finally FREE from the prison of self-doubt and fear I had created for myself.
I wanted to finally STOP beating myself up.
That used to be me. I used to desperately wish I had the self confidence I need to achieve success in life, until…
I Found the Secret to GENUINE Self Confidence Which I Didn’t Have to Fake and Couldn’t Even If I Tried…
…and it was not AT ALL what I was expecting
You see up until that point I had what you would call FAKE self confidence.
I would pretend like I was confident. I would even ACT like it, but deep down, inside I really knew I wasn’t and I could tell other people knew as well.
I can still remember when this all came to a head for me and I had to face the real, cold hard truth.
I was just finishing up a 8 mile run on the beach and I ran by these 3 girls that were laying on the beach.
One of them caught my eye and for some reason I was really drawn to her. I wanted to go over and talk to her.
I saw her look my way once while I was running by and then again when I stopped my run right around where they were hanging out.
I felt pretty good about myself, having just run 8 miles and thinking this girl was probably checking me out, but then a thought went through my head…
“I should go up and talk to her.”
My brain quickly dismissed it with my default excuse. “I could if I wanted to, but I don't really want to right now. I just don't feel like it.”
BULLSHIT!
It was at that moment that I realized, this was what I kept telling myself for years.
I kept pretending like I was this confident stud who would talk to any girl, but the reality was that I wasn't.
I had a conversation with myself in my head…
“John, if you really are that confident ALPHA guy you think you are, why are you making up bullshit excuses as to why you aren't going to talk to that girl?”
“Why don't you just do it just to show me that you are what you say you are?”
“Are you actually what you say you are?”
“Are you a FRAUD?”
That's when I realized that I HAD to do it.
That is the day my life completely changed.
I turned right around… and I walked over… staring her directly in the eyes as I approached.
If I was going to do this, I was going to do this like a man.
It was the first step on my way to building true self confidence…
I had to first let go of my fake, bullshit confidence, and face the truth.
I got up to her and opened my mouth, even though I was a bit nervous, the words came out “you look familiar, I think I know you from somewhere.”
It wasn't the best line, but it was a start…
More importantly, I had taken my first step to building true self confidence and, even though I didn't know it at the time, that moment completely changed my life.
Once I Had This System, I EFFORTLESSLY Transformed Myself Into The Confident Man I Knew I Was Deep Down Inside
For the first time in my life, I truly felt confident in myself and other people could see the difference as well.
I no longer felt awkward or that my lack of confidence or social anxiety was holding me back in life.
I no longer felt the grip of self doubt that held me back from doing so many things I wanted to do in life.
I could talk to strangers.
I could travel the world.
I could finally walk into that party and greet everyone I ran into and feel like I actually belonged there and people were excited to see me and talk to me.
I actually, for the first time, felt like the LIFE OF THE PARTY.
And my life completely transformed in other ways as well…
I went from broke and in debt to having a net worth of several million dollars and having true financial freedom.
I finally got the physique I always wanted and did things I never thought physically possible like running multiple marathons and even an entire 50 mile race.
I got an amazing girlfriend who is the most stunning woman I’ve ever seen. (We are talking about a real knockout.) And I KNOW that she truly loves me, not just for what I have, but who I am deep down inside.
That’s the kind of confidence that makes you feel like you could conquer the whole world.
I Want to Show You What I’ve Learned, So You Can Easily Become Truly Self Confident In Just 12 Weeks
I had to work hard to build a system for true self confidence, because everything else out there I tried didn’t work.
There was not a complete system that incorporated everything I needed to develop my self confidence.
I had no mentors. I had no one to show me what to do, so I had to study and learn it myself.
So, I had to build that system and then I had to test it with many of my coaching clients who literally pay me $1,500 an hour to help them build their self confidence and success in life.
I read hundreds of books. I did hours and hours of research. I learned everything I could about how to workout, how to dress, how to talk to women and I field tested all of it.
But finally, I have a proven, battle-tested system that anyone can use to build a genuine and powerful self confidence that commands respect and everyone in the room notices.
That’s what I want to share with you today, if you’ll lend me just a little bit more of your time…
But first, I want to ask you…
What Will Happen If You NEVER Solve Your Self Confidence Problems?
Life is short.
Life is also VERY unfair.
It’s not your fault you have low self confidence or that you have social anxiety.
But, the harsh truth is…
NO ONE CARES!
I don’t say that to be mean, but I say it because I want you to realize that if you don’t step up and take action, NOTHING is going to happen.
Your life will continue to be the same and you’ll continue to SUFFER.
I know this, because that was my life for a LONG time—way longer than it needed to be.
I know the pain you're dealing with and I know how hard it is to go through life not feeling good enough and feeling like you were meant for so much more, but to have this crippling feeling of anxiety and self-doubt stopping you from getting the life YOU DESERVE.
That’s why I want to share with you my complete self confidence system, so that, TODAY, you can start on the path to COMPLETELY change your life and stop suffering, because you’ve already been struggling with this for far too long.
Introducing The Complete 12 Week Self Confidence System
I put together everything I learned about building true self confidence into a super simple, easy to implement, 12 week system that you can NOT fail at.
I’ve laid it all out for you so that all you have to do is follow this system and the assignments I give you and it will be impossible for you to not become successful.
I am so confident this system will work for you, that I absolutely guarantee it with MORE than 100% of your money back if you go through the program and you are not much more confident than when you started.
Here is what it is included:
3 Months of Self Confidence Group Coaching
You’ll get access to group coaching calls every month where I will personally answer any questions you have about building your self confidence and you’ll get live feedback on how you are doing.
This is one of the MOST valuable parts of the program, since I charge $1,000 a month for my group coaching calls.
Having accountability to me personally and the other people in the program makes a HUGE difference in taking action and building your confidence.
I’ll be your personal mentor on your self confidence journey and help you along every step of the way.
Total value: $3,000
Building True Self Confidence Masterclass
You’ll start with this master class that will teach you everything you need to know about true self confidence.
It’s a deep dive into understanding exactly what confidence is and how to build confidence in any area of your life. Then, you’ll learn how to apply the concepts to your whole life to build true self confidence that few people ever experience.
In this masterclass you’ll learn:
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Why you feel confident in some areas, but not truly self confident
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Arnold Schwarzenegger’s secret to confidence in ANYTHING
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The BIG MISTAKE that makes you arrogant instead of confident
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The true source of FEAR in your life
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How to feel like you can handle any situation
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The 3 primary ways to develop self confidence in ANY situation
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How FEAR will actually HELP build your confidence
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Real world examples of how to gain confidence with women
Total value: $95
Daily Self Confidence Audio Affirmations
Subconsciously program your mind to become more confident and to truly believe in yourself. A powerful confidence that others will instantly recognize.
It’s been scientifically proven that repeating affirmations work to produce a real change in your personality and mindset.
You can listen to these audio affirmations every day when you wake up and repeat them to set yourself up for success every day.
Total value: $40
How to be Confident Around Women Video Course With Exercises
Women consistently say the most attractive thing about a man is confidence.
This doesn’t mean that looks and other things aren’t important, but all things equal, you will ABSOLUTELY get better results with women when you are more self confident. Being unconfident around women will be CERTAIN DISASTER no matter how attractive you are.
This course will give you a step-by-step guide on how to be supremely confident around women.
In this course you’ll learn:
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Why women can instantly spot a man trying to fake confidence
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The 3 things you MUST do before you can even approach a woman
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The MOST POWERFUL exercise for self improvement I’ve ever seen
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When, where, and how to approach BEAUTIFUL women to get the best results
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What to say to ANY women so you never get tongue tied again
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How to NEVER be nervous when talking to a woman again (no matter how attractive she is)
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How to be COMPLETELY rejection proof and use rejection to actually make MORE women attracted to you
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How to get out of your head and act completely natural and genuine ALL THE TIME
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The BEST technique to make a women think you are FUN and EXCITING
Total value: $95
BONUS: The Self Confidence Workout Program
One of the KEYS to self confidence is feeling good about yourself and feeling like you are physically strong and attractive as a man.
Having a good physique will help you build confidence quickly—plus it has other benefits as well.
This is the complete workout program I have used to build an incredible physique and to go from FAT and out of shape to having a body that most men would want to have and women find attractive.
This is a simple program, you can implement RIGHT NOW to start getting results today.
Easy to learn and it cuts out all the bullshit fitness advice that is out there that doesn’t really work.
I’ve implemented it with many of my coaching clients and we’ve seen phenomenal progress.
Total value: $49
BONUS: Self Confidence Visualization Exercises
These powerful, guided visualization exercises will help you get rid of your limiting beliefs and become more self confident.
This is a scientifically proven technique that the most successful and most decorated Olympian of all time (with 28 medals), Michael Phelps, used to become the best swimmer in the world.
Dr. Maxwell Maltz, in his bestselling book Psychocybernetics, called this technique The Theater of the Mind.
You’ll get guided visualization exercises that you can listen to at any time as well as a written version, so you can practice anywhere.
Total value: $49
BONUS: Dress Confidently: Self Confidence Style Guide
How you look directly affects how you feel about yourself. There is no denying it, and as the song goes, “…every girl crazy 'bout a sharp-dressed man.”
I hired an expert in men’s style to help me put together this very easy-to-use style guide that can make even the most fashion-challenged man look like a million dollars.
The best part is that you don’t have to buy an entire new wardrobe and you don’t have to buy expensive clothes.
If you really want to up your style to look and feel more confident, you don’t want to miss out on this.
Total value: $40
This is a total value of $3,372, but you won’t even pay CLOSE to that price today…
How much is it worth to you to eliminate self confidence issues and finally feel truly confident in yourself?
What would you trade in order to finally be able to go up and talk to any woman you want, to be able to walk confidently into a room or social setting, and to finally have the life you deserve—the life you were meant for?
To me, it’s priceless. I can’t even put a price on the value of taking the steps I needed in order to finally become truly self confident. It literally made me millions of dollars and significantly improved the quality of my life.
Normally I would charge thousands of dollars for the kind of help you’ll be able to get with this program.
My normal coaching clients pay $1,500 a month for 1 hour of my time and if I do group coaching, it’s a minimum of $1,000 a month.
But, I know everyone can’t afford that, and I don’t have the time to do one-on-one coaching with that many people. (I already have to turn down people for one-on-one coaching because I just don’t have the bandwidth.)
That’s why I decided to create this whole system in a format that you can easily digest yourself AND throw in 3 months of coaching on top of that.
If you add up the true value of everything in this program, and I’ve been pretty conservative with the values, it comes up to $3,372.
But… I am going to offer you everything, today:
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3 Months of Group Coaching (valued at $3,000)
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Building True Self Confidence Masterclass: Ultimate self confidence training, answers all your question about self confidence (valued at $95)
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How to be Confident Around Women (video course with exercises): Learn how to talk to women and get over social anxiety (valued at $95)
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Daily Self Confidence Audio Affirmations: Subconsciously program your mind to become more confident (valued at $40)
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BONUS 1: Dress Confidently: Self Confidence Style Guide: Dress with confidence to act with confidence (valued at $40)
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BONUS 2: Self Confidence Workout Program: Build a strong confident physique (valued at $49)
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BONUS 3: Self Confidence Visualization Exercises (valued at $49)
All of this, with a personal guarantee that you will find success with the program, all for just
$3,372 $497
BEtter Than Your Money Back
The “I’m CONFIDENT You’ll Be CONFIDENT” GUARANTEE
100%
Let me say this right now: this program WILL work for you.
I am 100% confident in it and I absolutely KNOW it will work for you, so much so, that I will personally guarantee you’ll succeed with my “I’m confident you’ll be confident” guarantee.
It’s a “BETTER than your money back” guarantee.
If you go through this program and you implement the exercises and you do not feel 100% more self confident than you were before you started this program, I will not only give you ALL your money back, but I will PERSONALLY work with you to help build your self confidence.
As you already know, I charge $1,500 an hour for my time.
That’s how serious I am about this.
The reason why I’m able to make this strong of a guarantee is because, I know beyond a shadow of a doubt, that if you ACTUALLY do what I tell you in this program, you will GREATLY increase your self confidence beyond what you could even imagine.
You have absolutely nothing to lose.
I want all the risk for this program to belong to me!
Are You Ready to Start REALLY Living Your Life?
I want you to imagine what it would be like to really feel like you don’t care what other people think about you.
Think about how your life would change if today you could be CERTAIN you are on the path to finally conquering the ONE THING that’s been holding you back from everything you want in life.
How good will it feel to finally be able to do all the things that you’ve wanted to do?
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Talk to women whenever and wherever you want to
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Walk confidently into a room and not feel self-conscious or awkward
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Be able to hold conversations and not be constantly thinking of what to say next
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Stop that internal dialog telling you how stupid what you just said sounds
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Be fully present and ENJOY social interactions, knowing that people like being around you
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Make friend easily without even thinking about it
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Earn more money by pursuing the things you never thought you could
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Get ahead in your career and become a leader at work
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Finally be happy with yourself and feel like you’ve made it
What if this doesn’t work for me?
I’ve already told you about my guarantee, so you literally have nothing to lose, but I also know from experience that this system and these techniques work because I’ve seen it work with so many of my coaching clients.
You might feel like a hopeless cause, but I assure you, you are not.
You are probably better off than I was when I started down this journey.
When I was a kid, I was so shy and socially awkward that I wouldn’t even get on the phone to make a doctor’s appointment.
This is your chance to change your life for good, so even if you don’t believe it will work for you, you have nothing to lose by trying.
I can’t afford the price
When people tell me something like this, I find that it’s not really the case.
I’m not saying you are lying, but what it turns out is that if you feel something is really worth it to you, you will find a way to pay the price for it.
So, let me ask you this question…
How much is your lack of self confidence, and as a result, your lack of motivation, costing you right now?
How opportunities to advance at work did you miss, because you didn’t speak up?
How many missed business or networking opportunities?
How much TIME are you spending trying to solve this problem for yourself, when I can literally hand you a solution and you can move on with your life?
I would say that WHAT you can not afford is a SELF CONFIDENCE PROBLEM.
I don’t have the time to do all this stuff… I’m busy
I totally get it. I am insanely busy myself, that’s exactly why I’m trying to hand you a SIMPLE solution that you can easily implement and start getting results right away.
I made everything super simple with this system, so that you can take small, easy steps every single day and completely transform your life in the next 12 weeks.
The time commitment each week is minimal. All you really need to devote is just 1-2 hours each week and you’ll be well on your way.
Don’t you owe it to yourself to invest a small amount of time to finally conquer your self confidence problems and have the kind of life you’ve always wanted?
I don’t trust you… why should I believe you will be able to help me?
Good! I’m not asking you to.
If you’ve watched my YouTube channels and heard my story, you can see documented proof of my own confidence and life transformation…
… and I have plenty of testimonials from other men whose lives have been completely transformed through my coaching, BUT…
I STILL don’t expect you to believe me—and that’s OK.
That’s why I included my “I’m Confident You’ll Be Confident” guarantee.
I want to make it so you don’t have to trust me. All you have to do is take a chance.
If you don’t achieve the results you want, I will give you all your money back AND personally coach you to get the results.
It really can’t get much better than that.
When you are the most confident version of yourself and you truly feel self confident, your entire life changes—believe me. I experienced it myself and I have seen so many of the men I’ve coached completely transform their lives as well.
Don’t miss out on this opportunity to give yourself a gift that has the potential to give you the life you’ve always wanted.
You might not think it’s possible or you might think it’s too difficult, or maybe that you are just an unconfident person… but I can assure you there are people who sat here looking at this page thinking the exact same thing and they took a chance and now they are living the life they always dreamed of.
I know, because I was one of them.
I’ve learned the one thing in life that stings more than anything—and is unerasable—is regret.
I don’t want you to regret not solving this problem sooner rather than later.
John Sonmez
Founder of Bulldog Mindset
P.S. — If you have any questions or doubts about how this system can help you or if it's worth it, just shoot me an email at john@bulldogmindset.com. I will PERSONALLY answer your email and help you in any way that I can.